Creative Ways To Make Online Sexual Encounters Incredible

Creative Ways To Make Online Sexual Encounters Incredible

Intimacy is important in any relationship, none more so than a long-distance one. When you’re not able to regularly spend time together, you miss out on all the little things that happen day to day that define who you are as people. You also miss out on the physical intimacy of kissing each other on your way to work, spontaneous shower nookie, hand holding and snuggling on the couch.

It will help if you do your research. If virtual sex is new to you, remember that you’re learning a new sexual skill. Find out what makes you comfortable and feel the most connected to your partner. Set expectations as a couple, and make sure to establish clear boundaries like when to use the phone sex number for flirting.

Incorporate voice notes in your flirting.

If things start to fizzle, send voice clips throughout the day. Remind your partner of what you sound like, and that you miss them. Don’t be afraid to spontaneously pick up the phone using the unique phone sex number, and give your partner a call before meeting with friends, in the middle of a party, or after work. Still, it may feel like you aren’t as close. This is a difficult time for everyone, but you will learn to adapt, just like when you first began dating, and had to learn compromise. I know that doesn’t make the time apart any easier on your sex life, but luckily there are plenty of creative ways to keep things exciting.

Watching porn together

If you want to try virtual sex without yourself actually featuring on the screen, you can try watching porn together with your partner over a call – and it might also serve as a fun starting point before moving on to video sex.

As well as watching porn, you can listen to audio porn together using a sexual wellness app like Ferly, or you could read erotic fiction together over a call.

Take it in turns to read out your favourite passages from erotic books you both enjoy. You could even combine this with some FaceTime role play where you dress in character and live out some of the scenes for real. Let your imagination run wild.

Virtual sex parties

As well as virtual sex between partners increasing during the pandemic, group sex parties have also moved online. So, if a sex party is something you were previously curious about exploring IRL, a virtual party could help you ease into the experience – whether you attend alone or with a partner.

Clubs have moved their sex parties and events online during the pandemic, so why not dip your toe in virtually and get ready for when you’ll be able to attend in person?

Clare Louise